Maybe you’ve been hanging out for just a couple of weeks, or maybe it’s a long-term relationship. First things first: sex addiction isn’t just about loving sex.
There are some sex addicts who don't care whether you get off or not; others who not only want, but need to be your best lover ever. Basically, they flirt with every person who catches their eye.
But either way, they likely always need to be in control. But if it's attached to these other warning signs, you might be with a sex addict. When they go out to a bar, if there is a cute bartender, they chat her up. For some people, this might be normal, even healthy.
You may assume, after all you've been through, that they won't be receptive to talking, but you have some influence here.
Sure, if you come at them saying "You f*cking asshole, I know you cheated on me," you won't get an honest response.
I finally got to a point where because of my actions, I had nothing left.