Don’t be afraid to discuss why both of you were drawn to date someone that isn’t close to your age range.
Do this when things are getting serious, not on the first or second date.
If children are not a deal-breaker for you, there are several options for you down the road.
Also, discuss how you will handle the situation if your families are opposed to the relationship, and talk about the elephant in the room.
They continue to date other men until a relationship is established.