Don’t get involved with a man whose heart and head isn’t in the game, as it’s just a waste of time for you.
When you two are in the earlier stages of dating, don’t hesitate to ask this man what he wants and what he’s looking for.
You’ll also need to figure out where you fit into the picture, as it’s likely that you may one day meet his children.
This means accepting his children and understanding that trash talking their mom won’t do anyone any good.
This is important in determining whether or not you’re willing to go through with the relationship.
However, a divorced man can’t just erase his ex-wife from his memory and his life.
If he doesn’t want to get married again and you do, there’s a huge conflict here.