This guest blog from relationship expert Janet Ong Zimmerman contains some real words of wisdom.I love the idea that we can control our dating lives more than we realize — and I have heard the point about being who you want to attract from some very wise souls out there. Modern dating rules have become complicated, as the role of men and women are blurred.
Dating Advice #2: Control your dating destiny Getting dismal results tends to occur when you let your dating life happen to you.
Instead of letting dating control you, do what’s within your control.
The path your friend has taken may be more direct while your path may have more forks in the road. It’s my experience that the path with the forks in the road gives you a richer, more dimensional experience.
Replace the temptation to compare yourself to others by believing that everything is happening for your greater good.
If you have a hard time being vulnerable and want a man who communicates openly, you will want to become more vulnerable.