The 37-year-old who works at an ad agency, has a sweet pit bull, and an enviable vinyl collection — but is so obviously not over his ex-fiancée.I was fresh out of a relationship, breakup wounds still searing.The guilt may be your conscience speaking; it's a voice worth heeding.
He says it this way, "Like a good photographer who knows how to zoom-in on one detail, I had to choose to zoom-in on Candice — to the exclusion of all the other women in the room — in order to know what our potential was as a couple." Until he made that decision, even though our friendship was growing, it never could move past friendship because there were always other distractions. We're prone to anxiety over things that never happen. This is, I believe, the most practical point of advice.
I think that's one reason God tells us not to worry about tomorrow. Flirting is the tip of the iceberg to the world of sensuality.
Rarely does it happen that two men pursue with equal interest and intentionality, stirring in a woman an equal response and potential for love and marriage.
What's more likely is that as you get to know these men as friends, one will emerge as the man you're more drawn to (or possibly you'll realize neither is a good fit for marriage).
Relate to each man — when all together, as well as when it's one-on-one — in an honorable way. Simply ask, is "showing or feeling sexual desire." Flirting may be fun, at least in the beginning, but it's fleshly, not spiritual. He is Sovereign over His children, down to the very number of hairs on their heads and the length of days in their lives. Then, as He does, be a good steward of that wisdom and those opportunities. Until you're married to one man, you're not married.