He kept me literally broke while he was making almost half a million per yr and telling me we had no money because he was reinvesting it all in the company.

If I wanted 200 for Christmas presents, he made me postdate a check for January, and he wouldn’t let go of his check until I let go of mine. He lied all day every day, but the strange thing was that he turned very dark.

Over the next two or three years he was nice and took my calls at work, came home for supper, etc, but gradually grew distant and harsh again.

I found out in ’04 that he had a 10-12 yr affair with another secretary from his new position as COO of a publicly traded banking company AND a woman in every port city from here to Beijing.

We were like Barbie and Ken”¦expected to marry and live happily ever after.